LOVE..The truth more first than the Sun, more last than the Stars. ...❤

This Kind of Love

Even after all this time 

The Sun never tells the Earth,

"You owe me light."

 Neither the rain to the field,

"You owe me water."

 Nor the field to the insects,

"You owe your home."

 They just give and give,this kind of Love,they give...

Turn around and everywhere is Love.There is nothing in this world but Love.
Love has got no
definitions,no elaborations,no descriptions.Love needs no words,it speaks in silence.Love
is the voice under all silences.Love got no boundaries,it cannot be chained.
Love is that hope which has no opposite in fear.Love is the strength so strong mere force is feebleness.

But for sure Love would never be a promise of a rose garden unless it is showered with light of faith,waterof sincerity and air of passion.

Everyone experiences love differently, and at different times.Even the meaning of love is extremely
instinctive,but I'm certain that anyone who has experienced it knows it's the best feeling ever for sure...

"Love"
"The truth more first than the Sun,more last than the Stars." -E.E. Cummings


No words would be enough to bound LOVE into words..
Not much words now..
I want you all to Experience Love in your own way in your exclusive version..
This LOVE DAY Let your Loved ones know your feelings for them..Express it in the best way..

#KeepfollowingPositiveVibes$..
#MuchLove.. 

Resolutions are made to be broken!!

A year has always been an excellent yardstick.We are in the right frame of beginning something fresh.
A year presents you enough time to plan and take on a resolution or set a goal for yourselves.Indeed... What say????
This New Year's January is bidding a goodbye to us with just few more days to go and I guess so does our New year's Resolutions too which started with all the pomp and excitement.This time
Our resolution is not gonna break and this was firm thought on the very first day of the year.
Do you also subscribe to the philosophy that resolutions are made to be broken.Most of us take on the
resolution and start with good intentions, however,we don't follow through and see our goals to the
end.

Some of the most famous resolutions are of "loosing their weight" or "saying goodbye to their laziness" and then
there are some determined to "quit smoking or any other such bad habit" and so many more resolutions like this
those started with good intentions and firm attitude but unfortunately soon ends up in the trash bin.The sheer
numbers of these broken resolution every year made me to think deep..

The firm resolution of making excercise and yoga a part of the daily
regime seem to have come to an end though it started with all the firmness and believe that this time it wont break into pieces like before."I will take care of my health now onwards" and
"I will excerise daily." or "M gonna quit smoking for sure." and many more words like this but alas!!!

This has happened before too.Last year some of the similar words came out of the mouth but didn't last for long and this year too nothing's changed.Most of the resolutions break!! Thats a pretty much known fact.I probably think the reason behind these so many 

unsuccessful resolutions is the weak foundations of these promises.The explanation for this remarkable failure

rate is quite simple: "Humans are creatures of Habits." Our bad habits become a part of our nature and its nearly impossible to overcome these with taking on resolutions every newyear alone.When we set any resolutions an enormous amount of will-power is required.Ofcourse we want a good and ideal lifestyle and a better attitude.

Though we surely want to take on the good habits and follow them in our lives but we badly fail when it comes

to quit the bad habits.Actually Bad habits fix themselves with all their roots into our lives and to pull them out and throw away overnight is just not possible.We need to take baby steps with firm determination.The key is to make any goal a habit first that too a tiny one.

You know why this is so hard to over throw our bad habits from our lives because these 'Bad Habits keep on

following you as a option.' They are always available as a choice we can make any moment.

There's certainly no issue in making resolutions,but what is necessary is to make them successful with a

will power of not ending them up in mid.For this first and all we need to make ourselves ready for the

same.Before taking on any resolutions we need to analyze our willingness to take it and ask ourselves some 

of the very important questions like "What we think about resolution we're making?" "What is our willingness rate

and hopes on accomplishing it?" "Are we just going along with the crowd or do we really want to take it?"

An interospection is very much required.It is also said The more you make resolutions,the lesser are the chances to accomplish them successfully.Infact, we should take on an attainable resolution which we think would be easy for us to continue with.If we are gonna take a lofty goal that we're not confident enough to achieve them,we might end up giving up because eventually we will either feel so overwhelmed or frustrated about it in the long run.Secondly I feel we need to cut off the choice or option of reverting back to the bad habbit.Like if 

you have thought of quiting smoking, a cigratte infront of you should never be a option.Cut off all the choices

and circumstances that allure you to get back on those bad habits.When your heart knows that there's no option

or choice left,it accepts the things that are infront of it.

Resolution is a energy- a energy of the soul,heart and mind all together that works in your innerself in the direction

that leads you to the path of accomplishment of the goal that you have set for your ownself.So if you have planned that you will excercise daily,you know that there's no option.You have to do it at any cost.But remember,to take on a resolution that is abstract or unattainable for you is similar to hit a dart in the darkness.Analyze and weigh 

your goal and then head on towards accomplishing it with  a firm and determined attitude.

#TALESOF2015

Life is an interesting journey full of endless seasons accompanied with highs and lows,
lights and shadows.At times we encounter prickly diffs and other times we cherish green
pastures.But friends life never stops for anyone or anything.It is a story with no 'THE END'
It is going on and on.Every year brings us the pack of 12 months starting with new years morning
and ending in new years' eve.A time of beginnings and endings, a time of celebrations, a time of togetherness,a time for some nostalgia and some new hopes.
In this span of 12 months we taste the flavors of every emotions: Happiness,
disappoinment,success and failures,setbacks and gains,fun and despair.Its like each and every day of the year begins with new opportunity,challenges and promises and ends in new and even bigger dreams,hopes and longer to-do-lists..It sure is a great time of the year.
#TALESOF2015 gave me a chance of retrospection of the year 2015.And I sit down with my notepad open and stare the all-white fresh unsaved file lost in rewinding the videos of the gone events of 2015.Every detail etched in my memory
moving like a slideshow of photograph on a big cinema.

The year started with new hopes,aspirations and challenges as usual.Last year January was much colder than this year.Februray came in with harshness.Yes,My best friend lost her father who was fighting illness past 6 months.Uncle was a father-figure to me.It was a tough time for my bestie and
I was there for her and supported her with fortitude in this adversity.I saw her breaking into pieces and stooping & falling down and I also witnessed her gradually standing up high.It was indeed a big loss.But life moves and so does we.

Months passed and I looked forward to the new shades of the season.In May,I along with my family went on a trip to Haridwar and Rishikesh to seek piousness in the Dev lok.It was indeed a worthful religious trip which brought me closer to Mother Nature.I experienced religiosity and piousness of River Ganga and witnessed the grandeur of the holy Ganga. Nature is unbeatable and its magnificence is uncomparable.There is for sure some power which is the source of life on this Earth and that power is present as faith towards the Almighty in our Hearts.I too witnessed our ingratitude and ungratefulness towards Nature when I saw the immensely poor and dirty Ghats.Sight of pollution in the river was horrible!How ignorant we as Human beings are when it comes to Nature.We take itfor granted and do not have any sense of responsibility towards taking care of Nature.but all in all a religious trip near God and Nature it was!!
Oh my goodness! After three months Luckily I again with my family went on holidays and this time it was South.What a fun trip it was!! A long holiday of two weeks made all of us rejuvenated and fresh.From the sight of innumerable, long coconut tress on the roadsides in
kerala to mouth watering Southern delicacies (shambhar,dosa,vada) all were a paradise,watching the splendid views of sunrise to sunset in Kanyakumari,getting into streamers on a round of the vast ocean.Walking along the sea shores and the images of clear blue waters,white sand,
big palm trees and huges waves crashing against rocks again and again all were a treat to the eyes.The rhythmic pounding of the waves comforted me.
This exposure to Southern cities their culture,cuisines,beautiful sites and places on this trip was awesome and joyful.how cool and exhilarating!

One of the more highlighted event inmy life this year was exploring a brandnew passion in me.Yes Blogging happened .Positive Vibes became a positive part of my life.

To me this year.Its not that passion

for blogging came in me all of a sudden.Actually,it was always there but in a dormant condition and my inclination towards writing was a impromptu spur to blog.
In fact, I am to confess something here through blogging I got a chance to enter the world of Blogging which fascinated me thoroughly and attracted me.I was
introduced to this world on BLOGADDA which indeed took me to the ever-exciting Blogging world where thousands of more people like me are following their
passion of Blogging.I got to know the 'Happy Blogging' concept here.Though I am a pro blogger,I got a chance to be a part of BlogAdda in December.
BlogAdda gave me a platform and my presence over there inspired and encouraged me even more to follow my heart and keep up my Blogging passion.As they say,
It only takes a spark to get the fire going.This is something I do for myself.I gain a peace of mind when I write blogs and it is the time of joy.
As I say, 'Writing is a celebration to me.'Blogging surged in me more energy,born of excitement and anticipation.

These were some of the highlighted events of my life this year.I never favor Looking Back but this time Looking Back
and Recalling the highlights of 2015 through TALESOF2015 made me happy and emotional too.While I entered the year 2016 leaving behind the gone days,
I welcome the year with new hopes and more aspirations and expectations and the challenges the year brings in ahead.If I talk about my resolutions this year which I promised
myself to follow throughout sincerely.My prime resolution this year is to spread love.With my experience, though a small one,I learnt a ultimate lesson
of life and that is 'There is nothing in this world but Love.' Love is the only truth and should be our only desire.I promised myself I will love everything
around The mighty Nature,its human beings and animals.Life is too short to live with hatred and grudges for anyone or anything.
"Life a lamp, Love is its oil
which burns & illuminates us.
Life a cake, sugar is the Love
which sweetens us.
When thorns of desperate pricks,Love presents roses of hope
which soothes us."
Love is happiness,strength and power.Spreading Love is my resolution this year.

Next and the last resolution this year
is to get rid of my lazy habbit. Sometimes I am too lazy and I put important tasks pending.I would definetly change this laid-back attitude.This attitude sometimes becomes a cause of  stress and restlessness in me.Nevertheless,I follow my heart and I would surely keep my resolutions and make sure they doesn't break.

Ahhhh! I guess I have written a bit long but it was indeed fun journeying the memory lane and recollecting the gone laughter,pain,memories and happiness
and briefing all of them here with to figure out the learnt lessons from these insightful experiences.

Each experience- good or bad -Is like a paper boat in this ocean called life to take us through its vastness, and while we jump from one boat to another,Lets thrive to be a fearless bird that carries love and only love in it's heart.

"Hope
 Smiles from the threshold of the year to come,
 Whispering it will be happier.." -Alfred Lord Tennyson

Writing for #TALESOF2015 was truly an enlightening, enriching and an
exciting experience for me.


 “I’m sharing my #TalesOf2015 withBlogAdda.”

Blaming is never a Solution.

Blaming could never be a good option.

Yesterday I had gone with my mother to see a good friend of hers after a long time.Everything
was good and I felt nice to meet my aunt and her daughter,younger to me,studying in standard
12th.My mum so happy and excited as she knew she's gonna chit-chat after long with her friend.
I was getting bored and the only option was to get myself busy scrolling down newsfeed on facebook.
It seemed to me as if the gossip of the two pretty ladies is endless and then my aunt turned
to me calling my name.I replied her and she went on asking me about my studies and latest
plans and pursuits pertaining to my career in the near future.This conversation then shifted to her
daughter and she happened to tell us about the studies of her daughter.She sounded very worried as
this was her daughter's boards and perhaps she wasn't a good student. Aunt had lots of complains
and in no time her complains turned into blames.Blaming everyone and everything possible beginning from the school's management and academics to the tutor's classes ending to government and The Almighty.She was like "School is not doing their jobs well!";"We are paying handsome fee and they are not paying attention to my daughters development!";
"None of the teachers are teaching well.They are incapable";"We are just made fools and weakness of my daughter in academics is their fault." Tuition classes were not spared in any case and so does God but certainly God is use to of it.And I after hearing her blames went into introspection.I thoroughly thought about it.
You know I then realized that I also do the same.I am also busy blaming the situations and people and life and God. Everytime there's a feeling of rebuking when things do not fall in their place.This is our favorite pass-time as well.

I realized that very moment that Blaming is never a solution to the problems in your life.If something isn't the way it should otherwise be you need to make it that way with your sincere and honest efforts.Blaming upon situations and people around for the ups and downs is worthless.The kind of mind-sets we have developed these days and the way world around us has become Blaming is the much obvious first-approach of ours in every harsh and lows causing to us.We first blame thoroughly,criticize,rebuke strongly and to the fullest about things not going well or a failure or a fight etc and then we think about making some efforts to get them corrected.Believe me that's the last approach.Our attitude has become that way.This has not happened because of him.I am not good in academics because no one taught me well.Failure happened to me because my fate is poor.I gone through the heart-break,destiny is the reason.I often end up with loss because Laxmi isn't with me.I am dark,God is harsh.Country is not progressing,ministers are useless.Corruption is on peak,Government is dishonest.And there are countless blaming dialogues my dears.Have any one of us ever questioned ourselves?What we have done to make things better?What is our contribution?Is there any accountability of ours?How many times we have came forward to get things corrected?We are busy picking one or the other according to our comfort.I do it and you do it and believe me everyone does.This has perhaps our approach and way of dealing with the life's lows and prickly diffs.Knowingly or indeliberately we act this way.And No one is to be blamed for it.Neither the life and its situations,circumstances and people in it nor we.All we need to do is stop blaming and start acting.Acting upon the wrong and lows happening to us to make them better and peaceful.

"A man get discouraged many times but he is not a failure until he begins to blame somebody else and stops trying."


Approach should be a positive one that could eventually come up with a solution that is capable of resolving the issues.Instead of complaining work hard to make situations a better one.Its much productive to search your own past and find what caused your faults.If we are unsuccessful,we need to work even harder.If we end up in failure,we need to learn from it and correct our faults.If things are not falling in their correct place,time has yet to come.
But I certainly feel that all the approach and the efforts should be in the direction of resolution to a problem or issue that is affecting us.All the focus should be on ourselves and on what we are doing to be better and happy.
"When you realize that everything springs only from yourself,you will learn both peace and joy."

The Nothing to Wear Syndrome! ! 😂😉

Hahahaha!! Girls..Smiling right!!

Hey Girls you all must be very happy to be a Victim of this Syndrome and surely never wanted
to be cured.And for those who aren't suffering this happy syndrome my all sympathies are with them
but guys you are boring and for sure diverging from the track of being a typical girl always
greedy to get more and more in their wardrobes and still have nothing to wear.I am very happy
victim of this syndrome called 'THE NOTHING TO WEAR SYNDROME.' This syndrome often affects and
makes me realize its presence and that too at the very right moment..HAHAHA!!

Actually last night when I was going for a birthday party of my cousin I happen to struck hard by this deadly syndrome when I opened my cupboard to choose a perfect dress for the occasion.I scoured my wardrobe but only to realize that I HAVE NOTHING WEAR.And you know there started my panicky.I was as usual
cribbing that I don't have much dresses now!! What do I wear now? All the dresses are out of fashion
and infact I had already worn them so many times!! Seriouly I was once again a complaint box grumbling
about the so called issue of 'nothing to wear'.You will often find me whinning about this serious issue.
and my parents would be like 'You have such a big collection.''You are always buying something for yourself!'
:/ :/ Guys they are really serious about this but you know this syndrome is very hazardous and uncontroallable.:( :(
(HAHAHAHAH!!) I am helpless and moreover very happy to be helpless.:P :P

Let me tell you all I am big greedy when it comes to clothes and accessories. Every other weekend you will find me in the market picking up one or two dresses or may be other items like shoes,bags and other fashion items and still I will be like it is not enough and to be frank I think it's never gonna be enough for me.
My endless avarice is a symptom of this syndrome.I anyhow managed to pick a better one dress for the occasion
with a compromise attitude and firm thought to go for the shopping the very next day.This is not done!! :D

My fellow girls would be relating to this issue of mine for they have surely gone through this situation many a times in their lives too.They now know(those who were ignorant of this) that we are all too innocent and whose the culprit here?

This syndrome is the villain in the greedy story and we are just happy innocent victims.HAHAHA right girls!!
This avarice for more and more fashion goods is actually innate and We can't help it.
I feel its absolutely ok to be greedy for this case.We have got all the rights to look new and beautiful every single day making guys heart throb with a sigh!! Girls so next time when this syndrome hits you be more than happy and get your skates on and shop.Festive season is on and you are soon going to get hit with this.Get yourself some more items and fulfil the dosage of the syndrome.Happy shopping!! Cheers Girls!!
This was really fun writing.I hope you all equally enjoyed while reading.

Excitement on peak !! #BlogAdda

Wishing to be a part of BlogAdda soon :) :)

#fingerscrossed
Butterflies in the stomach :)